# Relationships on The No Agenda Show Relationships comes up in 57 chapters across 56 episodes of The No Agenda Show, from March 2009 to August 2026. - **Chapters:** 57 - **Episodes:** 56 - **Discussed:** March 2009 – August 2026 - **Related topics:** [Barack Obama](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/barack-obama.md), [Value For Value](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/value-for-value.md), [Karma](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/karma.md), [Mtv](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/mtv.md), [Dating](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/dating.md), [Donald Trump](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/donald-trump.md), [Donations](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/donations.md), [Gender Roles](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/gender-roles.md), [Humor](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/humor.md), [Job Karma](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/job-karma.md) ## Chapters 1–20 of 57 ### Adam Curry Reflects on the Passing of John C. Dvorak - **Episode:** [1899: Asymmetric Intimacy](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1899-asymmetric-intimacy.md) - **Published:** 2026-08-30 - **Time:** 16:31–23:19 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1899-asymmetric-intimacy/chapter/adam-curry-reflects-on-the-passing-of-john-c-dvorak.md Adam Curry discusses the emotional and professional impact of the death of his long-time co-host, John C. Dvorak. Curry admits the original dynamic of the show died with Dvorak and expresses uncertainty about the future of the program while experimenting with guest hosts like Jason Calacanis. They explore the "asymmetrical intimacy" of podcasting and the deep parasocial connection felt by the global audience. Keywords: [john c. dvorak](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/john-c-dvorak.md), [adam curry](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/adam-curry.md), [podcasting](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/podcasting.md), parasocial relationships, [grief](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/grief.md), [rotterdam](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/rotterdam.md) ### The Bird Test Relationship Theory on TikTok - **Episode:** [1815: Attunement](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1815-attunement.md) - **Published:** 2025-11-09 - **Time:** 43:19–50:18 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1815-attunement/chapter/the-bird-test-relationship-theory-on-tiktok.md A viral social media trend known as "The Bird Test" uses a partner's reaction to a casual comment about a bird to gauge the health of a relationship. Based on research by John Gottman regarding "bids for connection," the test measures whether a partner "turns toward" or ignores their significant other. Psychologists warn that while the underlying science of micro-connections is valid, using hidden recordings to test partners on TikTok can be a boundary violation. Keywords: bird test, john gottman, [tiktok](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/tiktok.md), relationship theory, alexandra solomon, [psychology](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/psychology.md) ### Incel Culture and the Failure of Modern Relationships - **Episode:** [1813: Lunchbox](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1813-lunchbox.md) - **Published:** 2025-11-02 - **Time:** 52:22–56:38 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1813-lunchbox/chapter/incel-culture-and-the-failure-of-modern-relationships.md A host shares an anecdote from a California football game involving a socially isolated man to illustrate the dangers of "incel" culture and the "Zed dissociation" from women. The discussion emphasizes the importance of female companionship in a man's life, contrasting it with the transactional view of relationships often found in online subcultures. Keywords: [incel](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/incel.md), [gen z](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/gen-z.md), [relationships](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/relationships.md), card section, [social isolation](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/social-isolation.md) ### The Whatever Podcast and YouTube Relationship Content - **Episode:** [1780: Chatbox](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1780-chatbox.md) - **Published:** 2025-07-10 - **Time:** 1:43:43–1:47:43 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1780-chatbox/chapter/the-whatever-podcast-and-youtube-relationship-content.md A critique of long-form YouTube content, specifically "The Whatever Podcast," which features multi-hour discussions with OnlyFans creators and influencers about relationship issues. The hosts discuss the "manosphere" trend and the specific hand gestures used by female guests, which they label as "bird hands." They suggest that a return to "kale" might be a better solution for modern social ailments. 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The phenomenon highlights a growing crisis of de-socialization and extreme loneliness among young men who turn to AI for companionship. Keywords: karen marjorie, karenai, [snapchat](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/snapchat.md), [chatbots](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/chatbots.md), parasocial relationships ### Bill Belichick and Jordan Hudson Relationship Controversy - **Episode:** [1760: Mercenary Spyware](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1760-mercenary-spyware.md) - **Published:** 2025-05-01 - **Time:** 2:51:59–2:56:36 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1760-mercenary-spyware/chapter/bill-belichick-and-jordan-hudson-relationship-controversy.md Former NFL coach Bill Belichick's relationship with 24-year-old Jordan Hudson has drawn media scrutiny, including a critical report from Megyn Kelly. During a CBS Mornings interview, Hudson reportedly attempted to "dominate" the conversation and control Belichick's answers, leading to comparisons with Jill Biden's role. Kelly criticized the 48-year age gap and Hudson's behavior, while Belichick maintained he is focused on what is best for his private life. 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Keywords: [nighthood](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/nighthood.md), [signet rings](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/signet-rings.md), [relationship karma](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/relationship-karma.md), [san marcos](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/san-marcos.md), [value for value](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/value-for-value.md) ### Dr. Sir Otter and the Fisting Nuts Karma - **Episode:** [1681: Daddy Long Legs](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1681-daddy-long-legs.md) - **Published:** 2024-07-28 - **Time:** 1:37:34–1:40:43 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1681-daddy-long-legs/chapter/dr-sir-otter-and-the-fisting-nuts-karma.md Dr. Sir Otter, a trucker from Nebraska, is promoted to Baron of the Flatwater after a significant donation. He requests "relationship karma" and a replay of the "fisting nuts" segment, where a host complains about the annoying way people eat snacks on airplanes. The segment also features audio clips of Kamala Harris and Donald Trump used for "karma" soundbites. Keywords: dr. sir otter, [fisting nuts](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/fisting-nuts.md), [airplane etiquette](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/airplane-etiquette.md), [karma](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/karma.md), [relationship advice](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/relationship-advice.md) ### Social Etiquette, The Sister Gag and Mother-in-Law Relationships - **Episode:** [1664: Friendshoring](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1664-friendshoring.md) - **Published:** 2024-05-30 - **Time:** 2:25–4:09 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1664-friendshoring/chapter/social-etiquette-the-sister-gag-and-mother-in-law-relationships.md A discussion regarding a classic social maneuver dubbed "the sister gag" explores the effectiveness of complimenting an older woman by asking if she is her daughter's sister. The conversation shifts to personal anecdotes about maintaining positive relationships with mothers-in-law. One host reflects on his successful relationship with his wife Mimi's mother, attributing it to a commitment to being supportive. Keywords: [social etiquette](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/social-etiquette.md), mother-in-law, [mimi dvorak](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/mimi-dvorak.md), family relationships, [humor](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/humor.md) ### Relationship Karma, Sir Julian's Apology - **Episode:** [1613: Fossil Fools](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1613-fossil-fools.md) - **Published:** 2023-12-03 - **Time:** 2:58:29–3:02:31 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1613-fossil-fools/chapter/relationship-karma-sir-julian-s-apology.md Sir Julian, newly minted Baron of the Santa Cruz Mountains, requests "relationship karma" and includes a public apology to his partner in his donation note. The hosts offer their support while speculating on the nature of his mistake. Keywords: [relationship karma](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/relationship-karma.md), [apology](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/apology.md), santa cruz mountains, [forgiveness](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/forgiveness.md), [peerage](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/peerage.md) ### Final Donor Acknowledgments and Relationship Karma - **Episode:** [1559: COBALT](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1559-cobalt.md) - **Published:** 2023-05-28 - **Time:** 2:37:24–2:41:41 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1559-cobalt/chapter/final-donor-acknowledgments-and-relationship-karma.md The final segment of donor thank-yous includes contributions from Peter Chong, Linda Lupatkin, and several international producers. The hosts address a rumor about Nolichek's Meats closing and grant "relationship karma" to a producer known as "Dude Named Ben." 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The new knights, Sir Carl of the Gully, Dame Jus, and Sir Bioblob, request Japanese whiskey and resistance burgers for their round table induction. Keywords: [knighthood](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/knighthood.md), [paypal](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/paypal.md), relationship drama, [round table](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/round-table.md), mates ### Meetup Reports and Relationship Karma - **Episode:** [1424: Guidepost](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1424-guidepost.md) - **Published:** 2022-02-10 - **Time:** 1:58:53–2:07:27 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1424-guidepost/chapter/meetup-reports-and-relationship-karma.md Producers report on successful meetups in North Carolina and Oregon, emphasizing the importance of human contact in a "judgment-free zone." A donor from Salt Lake City requests relationship karma for her boyfriend, Steven, and notes that the show has helped her 14-year-old son learn to spot media lies. The segment includes various "jingles" requested by the donors. Keywords: [meetups](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/meetups.md), [north carolina](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/north-carolina.md), [utah](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/utah.md), [relationship karma](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/relationship-karma.md), [media literacy](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/media-literacy.md) ### Justin Trudeau, Relationship Manager Role, and Liberal Party Insiders - **Episode:** [1422: Honk Honk](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1422-honk-honk.md) - **Published:** 2022-02-03 - **Time:** 22:45–25:15 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1422-honk-honk/chapter/justin-trudeau-relationship-manager-role-and-liberal-party-insiders.md An insider report from a senior Liberal Party official characterizes Justin Trudeau as a "relationship manager" and an actor who follows a script rather than making policy. 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Vinnie Visconti and his wife Sinead are highlighted for their support and their "exit strategy" from the current political environment. Keywords: vinnie visconti, [333](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/333.md), 311, [relationship karma](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/relationship-karma.md), [birthdays](https://search.noagendashow.net/topic/birthdays.md) ### Mother's Day Tributes, Sir Randy and Sir Ones and Zeros - **Episode:** [1345: Peak Woke](https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1345-peak-woke.md) - **Published:** 2021-05-10 - **Time:** 1:48:37–1:54:44 - **Transcript:** https://search.noagendashow.net/episode/1345-peak-woke/chapter/mother-s-day-tributes-sir-randy-and-sir-ones-and-zeros.md In honor of Mother's Day, several producers send in donations and tributes to their wives and mothers. Randy Vizentine is knighted as "Sir Randy of Drummingham," and Chuck Douglas is recognized for his contribution. The hosts grant "relationship karma" and "jobs karma" to various listeners as requested. 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Kelly requested relationship karma following a split on Mother's Day and job karma for her new teaching position in a different school district. The hosts acknowledged the high quality of the pottery and thanked the associate executive producers for their support. 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One listener shared a humorous story about attempting to use President Trump's "nice and easy, just relax" line on his wife, which resulted in a negative outcome. The hosts concluded that the only effective phrase in a marital argument is "yes dear, I was wrong." 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